Woww they are so perfect (well no one is perfect ) .Their expression, their body language, way of tone is at peaks .they are so confident.and I wish like if I could be her or him !!!
I guess we all are like this at some point if we seen in school, college, public places , friend circle, working life etc. we start questioning ourselves why I am not capable of this . This blogspot is about how to carry yourself with confidence in this masked world.
Confidence isn't about pretending to be someone you're not , it's about embracing the hidden gems you got . Sometimes starting over until you create something beautiful within yourself ✿
If I share my journey , I also do feel less confident in some circumstances and feel uncomfortable but start writing blog is the part of me which is taking step to overcome this barrier or fear and discomfort from getting up but now I guess I am enjoying it because I already passed my first step .
AND IT ALWAYS THE FIRST STEP WHICH STOPS YOU TO BECOME WHO YOU ARE !!
So take your first by following the ~
1. DO THINGS FOR YOURSELF -
you know, we always messed up when we thinks of ourselves in terms of others . We try to copy other people how they are doing, talking or dressing. So don't do it .You are unique and beautiful the way you are so never try to copy others . whatever you are, wherever you are - just accept yourself and do what interest you or makes you feel good within self .
Whatever idea you came up with , follow that , nothing is stupid.you go ahead with your that little feeling who is hiding because of others and insecurity.
2. Embrace your authenticness-
You are a lovely human being who is deserving of all love.Don't feel guilty for being who you are. Learn to carry yourself alone with this attitude. It's okay you are silly, laugh at anything, don't have the clarity , can't stand straight.
You don't have to be dependent on others to be with them just for a sake.
{ You be YOURSELF: World will adjust}
3. Start small-
To build confidence, it's to take care of the small opportunity which is present in our surroundings. Start from home taking it to your between friends then school or college or workplace. Also, you can see my previous blog on the habit of building your self-esteem to apply in this context of learning a HABIT of self confidence. Keep your goal for 30 days straight and you are going to see a change within yourself.
4. Speak in front of the mirror -
Interact with yourself. When you speak in front of a mirror, you can analyze your expression, way of speaking, your thoughts automatically comes out, which helps you understand your feelings or what you are Missing . It connects with yourself. It develop the confidence of making eye contact , facial expressions and makes you analyze your hand movement . It enables the communication with you and others which helps you in every moment of your life .
Books like - The power of self confidence helps in taking risk and building confidence. The Mountain is You helps in transforming the concept of self sabatoge.
5. Don't be afraid to make mistakes -
It is the most important step because without it nothing can happen. We always fear stepping from our comfort zone.Or breaking the pattern. Allow yourself to be free and it's OK to make mistakes. People always need something to make fun and embarrassing the other person , making you feeling humiliating but after sometime they get another thing to do behave same.That doesn't stop you from learning what allows you to be You is to be clumsy, stupid and authentic. Experience these wonderful moment because at last you are gonna a regret why didn't!!!
6. Proud on yourself -
As I said you deserve everything so enjoy that little achievement. enjoy every step you take or on every feeling that boosts your confidence. Celebrate it , this will keep you encourage and gives you positive attitude.
7. Dress Well -
Sometimes the presentation is what attracts others and make people feel how confident you are . So Dress well and clean , find your style and carry yourself through. People will attracted towards you the way you show decency in your clothes. It makes you look smarter . The book, DRESS YOUR BEST LIFE , focuses on personal style and the power of presenting yourself.
8. Risk factor -
Say 'No' loudly to the things which do not comforts you . Say 'No' in a group, in an activity, take action. You are a big girl who is not dependent on someone else's view. Have the courage to go against all alone . Heart beats fast when you make these decision but the joy in alone when you literally nailed it . Go for what makes you feel exciting and scary at the same time .
These steps will develop the strength to move ahead and makes you learn the confidence. Remeber, TAKING RISK AGAINST THE FEAR OF YOUR HEART THEN ONLY YOU START LEARNING FOR THE REAL TIME. It always seems impossible until it's done .
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